A conversation with my gay friend

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail The other day we got together with a friend of mine from high school named Andrew*, and his boyfriend, Tom. They moved out of state earlier this year, but a business trip brought him and Tom back through town recently, and we jumped at the chance to go out to dinner with them. This… [Continue Reading]

Contraception: The discussion has finally begun

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail There’s an article out in the Washington Post this week that’s been getting a lot of buzz, titled Young Catholic women try to modernize the message on birth control. In it, Post writer Michelle Boorstein explores the issue of how modern Catholic women perceive Natural Family Planning, and highlights some voices that say that… [Continue Reading]

My life changing diapers

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FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail Now that I’m visibly pregnant, I get asked more and more often for a detailed plan of how many more children I’ll have and when I’ll be “done.” Much of the time, “Congratulations” is swiftly followed by one of the following questions: “So, is this the last one?” “How many more are you going… [Continue Reading]

My answer to “Do you want more children?”

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FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail When people see me out and about with my four young children, one of the most common questions I get is, “Do you want more?” (Or, more accurately, “DO YOU WANT MORE?!?!?!?!“) I’m never sure what to say. “Yes” doesn’t sound quite right. Our fourth baby in four-and-a-half years is only eighteen months old,… [Continue Reading]

How I went from lifelong atheism to orthodox Catholicism (Audio)

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail My story + 7 lessons I learned about conversion Thursday night I was honored to be asked to share my conversion story with the RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) group at St. Elizabeth’s parish here in central Texas. I wanted listeners to be able to take something away that they could apply… [Continue Reading]

Why my life is better since becoming open to life

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail “You guys aren’t really going to have any more after this one, right?” a few people have asked me privately. “We thought about having another, but the sleepless nights, the diapers, the pregnancy and birth — ugh! Aren’t you just so ready to be done with all that?” a neighbor asked at the playground… [Continue Reading]

How I became pro-life

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail Who is human? Back in college I remember reading about how in certain societies throughout history (I believe in this case it was the Greeks) it was common for parents to abandon unwanted newborns, leaving them somewhere to die. It was so deeply troubling to me, and I could never figure out what was… [Continue Reading]

“What will I tell my gay friends?”

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail Back in what I suppose you could call “Phase I” of my conversion, when I had been looking into Christianity for a while and, to my great surprise, found it more and more compelling, there was one concern that weighed heavily on my mind: what would this mean for my relationships with my gay… [Continue Reading]

Contraception and a woman’s self-image

FacebookTwitterLinkedInPinterestPrintE-mail On the rare occasions that I used to think about the prospect of having a large family before my conversion, one of the first things that would come to mind is, “Just think of what my abs would look like! And years and years of nursing babies wouldn’t exactly leave me looking like a… [Continue Reading]